Wednesday, March 14, 2018
Secret Identities
One of K.’s friends is gender-queer. Another is pansexual. I need to consult a dictionary after I meet them, but I couldn’t imagine better friends for her, and I’m so glad they can proudly be who they are. I didn’t know anyone who was openly gay in school. I know half-a-dozen who have come out since.
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I read Slate's "Dear Prudence" column, and have consulted the urban dictionary about these terms too. My vocabulary wasn't up to date, and probably still isn't. Sad to think about all the people who once had to hide something so basic as their sexuality. I hope the current climate of acceptance lasts.
ReplyDeleteI think we can assume the language around sexuality is fluid and ever-changing.
DeleteWell-written. I was thinking of a post along these lines but I don't need to now. You said it better than I could.
ReplyDeleteAnd then this morning Prudence's column included a letter that began like this: "Last spring I began formally identifying as nonbinary." I have no idea what that means.
ReplyDeleteI think non-binary and gender queer are the same. Or maybe similar. I don't know.
DeleteIt is all very confusing... and I don't really understand the emphasis on one's identity. Or being persecuted for it, however defined.
ReplyDeleteGreat post.
I like to think the moment the persecution disappears, the need to emphasize one's identity will also disappear.
DeleteYes, I also need to consult the dictionary. I'm scared of giving offence, especially when all I want to do is support people's choices.
ReplyDeleteThis is great.
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